What About an Elder’s Adult Children?
Hello bro. Rushmore; I’m having to restudy the subject of elders who have children who have left home and live elsewhere and are now unfaithful to the Lord. The elder and his family have conducted themselves properly. Thanks, Dave Dugan, Gospel Preacher, Lawton, Ok. Scripture records the qualifications necessary for men to possess before they can be considered for appointment as elders in any congregation (1 Timothy 3:1-7; Titus 1:5-9). The latter has this to say about an elder’s children. “… having faithful children not accused of riot or unruly” (Titus 1:6). Yet, the context in which those children, among the qualifications of elders, is addressed is revealed in the former passage. “One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity; (For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)” (1 Timothy 3:4-5). It is obvious from these Scriptures that in order for men to qualify for selection as elders (as far as biblical references to their children), they must have kept their families under control, having Christian children who, incidentally, acted like Christians ought to conduct themselves. Those comprising his family were obedient Christians, demonstrating their Christianity generally and with respect to the home over which their father was head. The question before us presently is whether an elder’s adult children who no longer live in his home must continue to be faithful Christians in order for an elder to remain an elder. The Scriptures say nothing …