Page
1

Vol. 13, No. 3 โ€” Mar 2011

So, You Want to Go to the School Dance?

Explore more articles by Author:

Teenage hormones raging and sporting recent physiological developments previously unrealized, and you want to go to the school dance, the prom or some other occasion where young, unmarried males and females handle and touch each otherโ€™s bodies? How is that appropriate for anyone in light of Godโ€™s Word, but especially how is that fitting for the children of God? Is dancing conducive to thinking pure thoughts (Philippians 4:8)? Instead, doesnโ€™t dancing promote lusts (Matthew 5:28), which can only be correctly gratified within marriage (1 Corinthians 7:2)? Dancing leads young men and young women to first have impure thoughts, which if acted upon lead to fornication (James 1:14-15), but the handling of one anotherโ€™s bodies is sinful in itself (1 Corinthians 7:1).

In the second place, dancing is associated with other sins like drinking alcoholic beverages, immodesty and lewd bodily gyrations, besides being a vehicle through which lusts can be fulfilled. โ€œLet us walk properly, as in the day, not in revelry and drunkenness, not in lewdnessโ€ฆ But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill its lustsโ€ (Romans 13:13-14). Rather than wearing either expensive or immodest party clothes, shouldnโ€™t especially Christian โ€œโ€ฆwomen adorn themselves in modest apparel, with propriety and moderation, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly clothing, but, which is proper for women professing godlinessโ€ฆโ€ (1 Timothy 2:9-10)?

In the third place, does dancing enhance or detract from the child of Godโ€™s Christian influence? Dancing is sensual in nature. Were one to turn off the music, dancing would more readily be recognized for what it is: touching, feeling, embracing and gawking with sensual overtones for oneโ€™s dance partner โ€“ of the opposite sex or even of the same sex! Essentially, dancing is foreplay set to music. Clearly, dancing is a form of worldliness instead of godliness. It is among other popular amusements that hinder spirituality and overshadow oneโ€™s influence. โ€œBut fornication and all uncleannessโ€ฆ let it not even be named among you, as is fitting for saintsโ€ (Ephesians 5:3). Dancing is not something that we can do and at the same time give thanks to or glorify God (Colossians 3:17; 1 Corinthians 10:31).

In the fourth place, does dancing influence Christians who participate in it to be more like the world and less like Jesus Christ? Robert R. Taylor made this fair assessment: โ€œThe fruit of dancing is not on the plus side of fidelity in marriageโ€ (Taylor 377). Dancing poses a danger not only to the unmarried but also to the married when oneโ€™s dance partner is not his or her spouse. In the context of discussing dancing, Tracy Dugger wrote: โ€œWhen Lot pitched his tent toward Sodom in Genesis 13, a tragic mistake was made, the same mistake some Christians make todayโ€ (245). Our Christian defenses are weakened โ€“ ever so slowly, maybe, but weakened none the less โ€“ when we hobnob with the ungodly world. The dance hall with its trappings often of alcohol, immodesty and lewd behavior is no place for a Christian to be, subjecting himself to temptations.

In the fifth place, dancing more nearly conforms to unrighteous behavior that will prevent souls from entering heaven than does it resemble Christian behavior. Galatians 5:19-21 contain four important points regarding the subject of dancing. (1) The word โ€œlewdnessโ€ (NKJV) refers to the type of activity involved in dancing. โ€œaselgeia โ€“ Mentioned in Gal. 5:19 this word is rendered into English by the words lasciviousness (KJV and ASV) and licentiousness (RSV). Greek lexicons define it so as to make clear that it is closely related to sensuality and sexual excesses.โ€™ Thayer notes that it may have reference to โ€˜filthy words, indecent bodily movements, unchaste handling of males and femalesโ€™โ€ (Eddins 11). (2) โ€œRevelriesโ€ (NKJV) denotes dancing and partying that occurred in the worship of Bacchus, the god of wine. (3) โ€œSuch thingsโ€ summarizes that behaviors related to or similar to the foregoing likewise carry the same heavy penalty: failing to โ€œinherit the kingdom of Godโ€ (Galatians 5:21). (4) Dancing keeps very bad company in this list of sins, any one of which will keep one out of heaven.

Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. (Galatians 5:19-21 NKJV)

In conclusion, dancing is a worldly model (Jones 776) instead of something worth modeling by the children of God (Romans 12:1-2; 1 Corinthians 11:1). Like many sins, dancing is a delusional sin (Grider 304), something like the so-called little, white lie that we tend to think isnโ€™t all that bad. However, what we might view as little sins have the same basic characteristic of every sin, transgressing the law of God (1 John 3:4), and have the capacity to keep a soul out of heaven (Revelation 21:8).

The following excerpt aptly recaps the foregoing above about the true nature of dancing โ€“ and how that Christians need to acknowledge that it is not a practice in which they can engage without sinning.

Any temptation which affords an unnecessary risk to the Christianโ€™s spiritual life ought to be avoided. It is clear from many N. T. passages that the Christian is in a constant struggle with sin. Even the strongest person ought to take care lest he fall into evil (1 Cor. 10:12). โ€ฆ Anything which tends to reduce spirituality and our awareness of Godโ€™s presence in our lives should be avoided. โ€ฆ Christians should not arouse emotions which cannot honorably be fulfilled. Human sexual drives are God-given and the place of their acceptable fulfillment is .God-ordained. The body contact and movement, the atmosphere, and the appealing music all lend themselves to the arousal of such desires as can be rightly fulfilled only in marriage. โ€ฆ Christians have a responsibility to preserve their influence so as to be able to lead others to glorify God (Matt. 5:16). The New Testament makes it clear that we are to act so as to keep others from stumbling over us. Let us all honestly ask ourselves how participating in dancing affects our Christian influence. (Eddins 12)

Dancing affects the child of God who engages in it, and dancing influences others to commit sin as well.

Works Cited

Dugger, Tracy. Abraham Entertains Angels; Sodomโ€™s Doom; Sin of Lotโ€™s Daughters.โ€ The Book of Genesis. Curtis A. Cates, ed. Memphis: Memphis School of Preaching, 2001: 219-248.

Eddins, Tom. โ€œChristianity and Modern Dancing.โ€ Spiritual Sword. July 1971: 10-13.

Grider, Barry M. โ€œWhat Is Sin?โ€ Sin and Salvation, Vol. 1. Bobby Liddell, ed. Memphis: Memphis School of Preaching, 2004: 293-306.

Jones, David B. โ€œThe Sin of Worldliness.โ€  Sin and Salvation, Vol. 1. Bobby Liddell, ed. Memphis: Memphis School of Preaching, 2004: 773-790.

Taylor, Robert R. โ€œFoundations for a Happy Marriage.โ€ Ecclesiastes and Song of Solomon. Curtis A. Cates, ed. Memphis: Memphis School of Preaching, 1994: 377-389.


Author: