How Old Must the Children of Deacons Be?
One veteran Gospel preacher observed that commentators do not address this aspect of the qualifications for deacons in the church of the Bible. “How old must the children of deacons be?” The phrases “one who rules his own house well” (1 Timothy 3:4 NKJV) regarding elders and “ruling their children and their own houses well” (1 Timothy 3:12) pertaining to deacons employ the same Greek words. To this extent, the qualifications for elders and for deacons are the same. However, the reference to elders is modified by the phrases “having his children in submission with all reverence” (1 Timothy 3:4) and “having faithful children” (Titus 1:6). Certainly, one or more children of an elder must be old enough to obey the Gospel of Jesus Christ as well as to demonstrate submission to the father of the family. This implies a relative age range for the children of elders. However, the phrases “having his children in submission with all reverence” and “having faithful children” do not appear among the qualifications for deacons. We simply find “ruling their children and their own houses well.” There is no implication relative to a maturity comparable to that necessary to comprehend and to obey the Gospel of Christ. Various Bible translations render 1 Timothy 3:12 “ruling their children and their own houses well” (NKJV; KJV; ASV; BBE; Douay-Rheims), “managing their children and their own households well” (ESV; cf., NIV; CJB; God’s Word; Lexham English Bible; Goodspeed, RSV), “the children leading well, and their own houses” …